Thursday, September 2, 2010

Iron Sharpens Iron by T. M. Moore

Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another. Whoever tends a fig tree will eat its fruit, and he who guards his master will be honored.

- Proverbs 27.17, 18

What kind of person would you like to have rub off on you? The Rule of Ailbe appears to be addressed to one who aspired to become part of a community of brethren, men living, praying, eating, working, and growing together. Ailbe provides a list of the kind of character traits a true soul friend must have if he is to benefit all those with whom he shares community.

We're all familiar with the "iron sharpens iron" proverb, and it contains a good deal of truth: if we are sharp and pure and devoted to one another, we can truly make one another sharper and even more pure.

But it's the 18th verse that speaks to me of the value of a soul friendship. If we cultivate the virtues of Christ and the life of the Spirit in others, we will benefit from the Christlikeness they achieve as they minister to us in His Name. And if we guard, shield, and protect those who have entrusted their souls to us, we will be honored by them and by the Lord.

So as you seek out a soul friend, look for someone who will agree to the terms of both of these proverbs, who will have the strength of an anvil to bear up under the blows of adversity, and who will devote himself in service to you just as you agree to be devoted to him in love.

Such friendships are few and far between in our day, but they are so valuable and precious once you discover them. Husbands and wives, begin with one another. Deepen your relationship and your love by committing to the sharpening and shaping of one another's souls so that Christ is more perfectly formed in each of you. Then seek a soul friend - men with men and women with women - who will help you to grow deeper and stronger in your walk and ministry with the Lord.

You will both benefit from your mutual devotion, and Christ will be honored before all who know you.

Does God bless simply because a president demands it?

T. M. Moore, nacurragh@aol.com

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

7 SIns of Dying Churches by Thom S. Rainer

I stood before some 700 church members on a Sunday evening. My task was straightforward. I was to share with them the results of a consultation my team members and I had worked on during the past several weeks.

The presentation should have been easy and uneventful. To the contrary, the time proved to be stressful and contentious. When I pointed out even a small area of concern with suggested remedies, dozens of members raised their hands to tell me how wrong I was, how the evaluations of the consulting team were far off base.


The church in question had been in decline for nearly two decades. Yet, from the perspectives of many of the members, the church was healthy and thriving. From my perspective, the most obvious reality I saw was denial.

Lessons From the Past, Lessons for the Future

Over the past 20 years, one of the richest blessings in my life has been the opportunity to study and consult with thousands of churches. I’ve seen hundreds of healthy churches that have taught me valuable lessons.

Unfortunately, I’ve also seen thousands of churches whose ministries are declining, whose members are discouraged, and whose evangelistic impact is negligible. Recently, I reviewed many of my past consulting and research projects to discern common characteristics of declining and dying churches.

I found what I call “seven sins” that characterize dying churches. These issues are not mutually exclusive; they are often directly related to each other. Rather than being a source of discouragement, I pray that my elucidation of these seven sins will be a tool to help you avoid the pitfalls that other church leaders have experienced.

Sin #1: Doctrine Dilution

One of our consultants sat in a Bible study class of a church that had brought in our team for a long-term consultation relationship. He had been told that the class included some of the church’s strongest leaders. Much to his surprise, the entire Bible study was a debate on whether or not a non-Christian might go to heaven. After much argument, the conclusion was that God would indeed allow such a person into heaven.


When such cardinal truths as the doctrine of exclusivity become issues of doubt, a church is in trouble. There’s little motivation for outreach and evangelism if other paths and other religions are equal to Christianity.


Ironically, in our survey of unchurched persons across America, we found that these non-Christians were much less likely to attend churches with weak doctrinal beliefs than those with strong ones. “Why should I waste my time in a place that does not have much certainty of belief,” Amy, a 29-year-old unchurched person from Arizona, told us. “I can find plenty of uncertainty in the world.”

Sin #2: Loss of Evangelistic Passion

It is no surprise that declining and dying churches have little evangelistic passion. In my January/February ’05 Outreach column, I highlighted one of the major reasons for evangelistic apathy: Many senior pastors either don’t have or have lost their evangelistic passion. Congregations tend to follow the passions and visions of those in key leadership positions, particularly the pastor.

Sin #3: Failure to Be Relevant

Unfortunately, many churches in America are out of touch with the changing trends and values of today’s culture.


Some churches, for certain, abandon many of the cardinal truths of the faith in their quest to be relevant to the community they serve. But even more churches are woefully unaware of the realities, hopes and pains of those around us. Failure to be true to doctrines of the Christian faith leads to apostasy. Failure to understand the world in which we live and serve leads to irrelevancy.


Sin #4: Few outwardly focused ministries

In a recent survey of churches across America, we found that nearly 95% of the churches’ ministries were for the members alone. Indeed, many churches had no ministries for those outside the congregation.


Many churches seem to exist only for themselves. While there certainly should be ministry available for church members, often the balance between external and internal ministries is heavily skewed toward internal. When churches seek to care and minister only to their own, it’s a likely sign that decline is in motion and that death may be imminent.

Sin #5: Conflict over personal preferences

Some of the more vicious internal battles in congregations today are not fights over defending the great truths of the Christian faith. Instead, members have conflict over their preferred worship style, the way a room is painted or carpeted, and the type of pulpit the preacher uses. Battles like these are sure signs that members are more concerned about their needs than the needs of the hurting and unchurched people who live and work next to them.

Sin #6: The priority of comfort

A few years ago, my youngest son, Jess, was a high school senior on the football team. Because he gave so much of himself in the Friday night game, he often slept late on Saturdays. Around noon, he’d trudge down the stairs, turn on the television in the family room and collapse on the sofa.


One Saturday, I passed him as his extended body contorted on the sofa and noticed that my football player son was watching HGTV. Curious, I asked Jess why he was watching a home and gardening show. His response was classic—“ ’cause the remote is broken.”


Many churches are in definitive patterns of decline because church members simply will not move beyond their couches of comfort. It’s much easier to do things the way we’ve always done them, rather than to get uncomfortable in the world outside the walls of the church.

Sin #7: Biblical illiteracy

Only 3% of churches in America have a planned method of instructing their members to learn the Bible in its entirety. While studying the Bible shouldn’t be limited to a church setting, it’s imperative that churches take the lead in these types of endeavors.


When only three of 100 churches even attempt to provide a way for their members to understand Genesis to Revelation, biblical illiteracy is likely to occur. And biblical illiteracy means that our churches may not be obedient to the calls of Scripture because they don’t know what the Bible says.

Lights in the darkness?

Our research shows that many churches in America are sick, declining and dying. Still, I remain an obnoxious optimist about the American Church. I’ve seen many churches reject the darkness of these seven sins and do something about their decline. They’re truly lights in the darkness.


I recently concluded a one-year consultation with a church that had seen a reversal of almost all the negative trends in its congregation. The pastor summed up the experience well: “We were not lacking in resources or know-how; we were just lacking in obedience. When we made a decision that mediocrity and complacency would not be acceptable, God began to bless us. It is just that simple.”


by Thom Rainer
LifeWay Christian Resources

Thom S. Rainer is the president and CEO of LifeWay Christian Resources (LifeWay.com). He was founding dean of the Billy Graham School of Missions, Evangelism and, Church Growth at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. His many books include Surprising Insights from the Unchurched, The Unexpected Journey, and Breakout Churches

Copyright © by Outreach magazine. All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

50th Wedding Anniversary

My wife's brother Jim and sister in law Rachael Ray celebrated their 50th year of marriage today. Allot of family as well as friends from time past helped in the celebration.

In today's world husbands and wives don't stay together like the generations past. I know for a fact there were times when either one or both were ready to leave, separate or maybe divorce but each were fighter's for the institution of marriage. Each took those oaths to each other as well to God very seriously.

They loved each other and as God gave them children and later grandchildren and now great-grand children they both look back with smiles and think " it had it's rough spots but seeing these kids makes for a soothing gel".

We have to stand up (on our knees) using the power of the Holy Spirit and fight. We have to fight to keep our marriages tact. We have to fight with the Whole Armour of God to keep our sin nature at bay. Don't let pride and anger guide you. Don't let lust lead you to the breast of adultery.

FIGHT LIKE HELL !! The author of hell is the author Adultery.

God Almighty, Protector of Your Children, Please forgive us of our weakness. Please empower us with your Holy Spirit, wrap your shield of protection around our marriages. The family you set up. The family you desire. The family you ordained. Father we need your Holy Spirit to give us wisdom, power and grace to keep our family as you desire it. In Christ Loving Name, Amen

Friday, August 20, 2010

4th Sunday Jail Ministry this weekend

Father God I ask for you Holy & Righteous Blessing be upon the meeting Sunday night. It is only by your grace and power that lives can be changed and souls saved. Be with us, surround me with your Spirit, fill me with your presents, use my lips, my tongue, my voice to tell of your everlasting love and your total forgiveness of sins. Teach us to Love You As You Loved Us. In Jesus Holy Name, Amen

I never go to the jail feeling satisfied in my efforts to prepare for the service. I always go in complete satisfaction that God has it under control, Praise His Name.

My intended subject is "Regeneration". The word is mentioned twice in the KJV, once in several other versions and not at all in the CEV. Regeneration, ReBirth, Born Again are life changing words.

God teach us how we must be Born Again so we can be Regenerated. Amen

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Can I really be used by God?

Most Christians think in a very negative way.
1. I don't have time to be in the ministry.
2. I'm not qualified.
3. I'm afraid I'll fail.
4. I don't know what to do.
5. I'm afraid of rejection.

There are more but lets stop at these for now and I will attempt to address these issues that Satan puts in our minds and conveniences us that they are real problems.

1. Everyone has the same 24 hours in a single day. Seems there are days when we just can't get it all done though. Doesn't matter if you're single, married, no children, w/children, retired, widower or widow we seem to be to busy for anything else.

The problem isn't with time it's with What You Think Being In The Ministry Is. As a believer in Christ your MINISTRY has to do with Mat 28:18-20 Jesus came and told His disciples, "I have been given all authority in heaven and on earth. Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age."

Your ministry is everyday, every task, where ever you are at any moment in your "LIFE". You are involved in the ministry when you wake up, as you relate to those around you at the breakfast table, to the guys in the car pool, the folks at work, in the gym, the neighbor as you work in the lawn.

2. The only qualification you need is to be BORN AGAIN and the testimony of what Jesus has done for you. Study his word, attend a Evangelical Believing Church, Participate in a Group Bible Study. God is your source for Knowledge and Wisdom.

3. Rom 2:4 Don't you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can't you see that His kindness is intended to turn you from your sin? If Jesus is with you who can be against you. Remember that your definition of success may not be the same as Gods. Stumbling is a means by which our gracious Lord Grooms, Styles, Shapes and Molds us into that which he has designed for us.

4. Mat 22:37 - 40 Jesus replied, "'You must love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments." Living these verses are the keys to everything we are. LOVE HAS BEEN AND WILL EVER BE GOD'S Message to us.

5. You may be scorned, put down, lied about, even stoned but Joh 14:16 And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Advocate, who will never leave you.
Rom 8:38-39 And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God's love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God's love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Man's UnBelief

I went to the jail for my monthly service tonight. There were about 25 men at the Annex Service. God is very much seen at those services. The men are truly struggling to walk with Lord. These men are the trustees and easier managed inmate.

In the day-room of the old jail we have a different type of inmate. These men are charged with the more serious crime. They too struggle to walk with the Lord. I also find that more of them confess they are not saved.

Tonight none of the annex men stated unbelief but in the old jail 7 admitted they were lost and on their way to hell.

The first step in salvation is that the Holy Spirit has to "Draw" you to the saving grace of God. This is also proof of Gods selection of the elect and of our predestination. Just because tonight the Holy Spirit didn't draw them gives you or I an excuse to stop witnessing to them. Pray fervently, continuously that God will work his wonderful grace in the hearts of these men

Thursday, June 10, 2010

God is speaking everywhere; we can help others listen.

“But if there is a personal Creator, if God is, then His creation can reflect His character; it can reveal God’s purposes for us. Our lives instantly gain meaning. The world becomes a means of knowing God as well as our dwelling place. We can truly be the reasoning, imaginative, creative persons we believe ourselves to be.”
-Chuck Colson, The Faith

“The divine substance is not visible to the eye, and the miracles of the divine government of the world and ordering of the whole creation are overlooked because of their constancy.”
-Augustine, Sermon on John 6:14

“If then a man wishes to know the deepest ocean of divine understanding, let him first if he is able scan that visible sea, and the less he finds himself to understand of those creatures which lurk beneath the waves, the more let him realize that he can know less of the depths of its Creator…Understand the creation, if you wish to know the Creator; if you will not know the former either, be silent concerning the Creator, but believe in the Creator.”
-Columbanus, Sermon I

“For this reason God even impressed a religious expression on the whole of unconscious nature – on plants, on animals and also on children. ‘The whole earth is full of His glory.’ ‘How excellent is Thy Name, God, in all the earth.’ ‘The Heavens declare the glory of God and the firmament sheweth His handiwork.’ ‘Out of the mouths of babes and sucklings Thou hast ordained praise.’ Frost and hail, snow and vapor, the abyss and the hurricane – everything does praise God.”
-Abraham Kuyper, Lectures on Calvinism

“On the glorious splendor of your majesty, and on your wondrous works I will meditate. They shall speak of the might of your awesome deeds, and I will declare your greatness. They shall pour forth the fame of your abundant goodness and shall sing aloud of your righteousness.”
-Psalm 145:5-7